Jack Canfield, author of Chicken Soup for the Soul as well as a new book, 30 Day Sobriety Challenge, gives a fresh perspective on this sometimes difficult balance, “Every life has its benefits and costs and once you realize that, you get out of jealousy and resentment.” So, maybe you didn’t have the best childhood, or maybe you grew up with every privilege under the sun. It really doesn’t matter. It’s really all about how you come out of the situation and how you respond to the situations you’ve been through. Through this, you provide your children with the ultimate example of resiliency and success.