The Anatomy of Marriage Part 2: The Man’s Side
Are you white-knuckling it through your marriage? Sometimes the relationship with our spouse gets off track and it seems beyond repair. We wonder how long we can hold on, but it’s not because the marriage is hopeless. It’s that we don’t possess the right tools to make it work.
Today’s guest is Seth Studley, the other half of The Anatomy of Marriage podcast and app for couples. If you listened to the show with his wife Melanie, you’ll remember that their marriage was so bad that she ended up giving him a black eye.
Seth is a Licensed Family Therapist and he gives us the man’s perspective on marriage. He tells us the signs that his relationship was headed for disaster, how it totally derailed, and the emotional labor he had to do to piece it back together.
For those men who are tired of fighting their way through marriage, this show is a game changer. Listen now or download for later!
The Anatomy of Marriage
A great marriage is built little-by-little over time. AOM Radio is a fun and engaging daily show that will help you create a fulfilling, sexy, fun and life-giving marriage. And hey, it’s cheaper than marriage counseling!
No one person has the answers for every marriage, that is why Seth and Melanie Studley bring on amazing guests and have REAL CONVERSATIONS about sex, money, kids, marriage counseling, relationships, and so much more!
Seth and Melanie believe that marriage help shouldn’t be boring so we created the Anatomy Of Marriage App, the Couples Counseling App that’s fast, fun and NEVER BORING! Better relationships in the blink of an eye and WAY CHEAPER then marriage counseling!
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What You’ll Learn
- Seth and Melanie were emotionally immature and arguing all the time.
- 7 years into their marriage, Melanie gave Seth a black eye when she found out he had been lying about watching porn.
- You shouldn’t look to partner for self-worth.
- Being super introspective is the first step to repairing your marriage.
- Nobody’s got it all together, not even Seth who is a couples’ therapist.
- Men are used to white-knuckling it alone.
- Not knowing yourself or your feelings effects your marriage.
- Men need to do the work. Emotional labor. Get real with yourself.
- How talking out loud to someone will help you figure out what’s going on with yourself.
- How to create healthy transition time between work and family
- What is cognitive dissonance and how it creates turmoil
- We think we can do it alone, but if we could do it on our own, we would’ve done it by now. That is why men need a coach, therapist, or group.
- The things are men not talking about when it comes to marriage problems.
- We are capable of superman moments if we give ourselves a chance.
- Don’t put off addressing the problems in your relationship. You can be your own guru.
- Get comfortable admitting your struggling to your wife. She wants the emotional connection, which cultivates intimacy.
- If you want to change, don’t give yourself a way out.
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MENTIONED EPISODES:
The Anatomy of Marriage with Melanie Studley
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