Shana James – Honest Sex with Unbreakable Connection

Shana James is a relationship coach with over 20 years of experience, specializing in building trust and passion in relationships. She holds a Master’s in Psychology, certifications in DISC and Positive Intelligence, and hosts the Man Alive Podcast with 270+ episodes and more than a half Million downloads. She also has a TEDx Talk, ‘What 1000 Men’s Tears Reveal About the Crisis Between Men and Women’, and authored the books “Honest Sex” and “Power and Pleasure”.

Today, Shannon James and Larry Hagner discuss the importance of communication, vulnerability, and connection in relationships. They delve into the dynamics of male-female interactions, exploring the need for understanding and empathy in fostering intimacy. The conversation touches on the challenges couples face in maintaining a strong connection amidst the demands of daily life.

Shannon emphasizes the significance of mature communication and self-awareness in nurturing a healthy relationship. She shares insights on how men can lead conversations with their partners, focusing on curiosity, empathy, and a willingness to understand each other’s needs.

Listeners are encouraged to approach relationships as a growth practice, viewing challenges as opportunities for personal development and deeper connection. Shannon’s expertise in coaching and relationship dynamics provides valuable insights for individuals seeking to enhance their communication skills and strengthen their bonds with their partners.

Larry’s Takeaways

1. Communication is crucial for relationship success
2. Understand and respect each other’s needs
3. Approach conversations with curiosity and empathy

What You’ll Learn

00:00:00 – Introduction

00:01:48 – Male and Female Brain Differences

00:03:21 – Shannon’s Perspective on Sexuality and Responsibility

00:05:15 – Communication and Connection in Relationships

00:07:53 – Immature vs. Mature Communication

00:12:09 – Defensiveness in Conversations

00:17:52 – Yes, And: A Game for Positive Communication

00:20:14 – Win-Win Conversations

00:24:43 – Leading Conversations as Men

00:31:01 – Assuming the Best and Getting Curious

00:32:44 – What Women Need to Feel Connected

00:37:15 – Simplifying Connection Efforts

00:38:48 – Reconnecting After a Rut

00:43:03 – Should Love Be Hard?

Links

www.shanajamescoaching.com/3ways