Andy Heller – The Divorce Secret Happy Couples Know Too Late
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Andy Heller is a successful businessman and author who transitioned from writing real estate investment books to penning “Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family” after his own divorce experience. Through his unique perspective as someone who has navigated divorce personally rather than as a professional in the field, Andy compiled insights from attorneys, therapists, mediators, and other experts to create a comprehensive guide featuring 46 practical strategies. His groundbreaking approach combines a businessman’s objectivity with expert guidance, aiming to help others achieve healthier outcomes for themselves and their families during and after divorce.
Today, Andy Heller shares his personal journey through a high-conflict divorce while offering strategic insights on navigating the process with compassion, including the vital role of early intervention and therapy for both parents and children. He introduces important concepts like utilizing co-parent counselors and special masters to ease the burden of divorce, while emphasizing the significance of strategic compromise on key issues for future well-being.
The discussion delves into Andy Heller’s unique approach to preparing children for divorce news through proactive therapy, alongside practical strategies for maintaining effective co-parenting relationships post-divorce. His comprehensive advice, drawn from personal experience and extensive research, provides valuable guidance for anyone contemplating or going through a divorce process.
Larry’s Takeaways
- Early therapy can save marriages.
- Co-parent counselors aid smoother divorces.
- Prioritize key objectives in divorce negotiations.
What You’ll Learn
00:00:00 – Introduction
00:01:11 – Andy’s Journey Post-Divorce
00:02:23 – The Importance of Therapy
00:03:31 – Understanding the Stages of Divorce
00:04:58 – The Trauma of Divorce
00:06:05 – Recognizing Imminent Divorce
00:07:03 – The Role of Separation
00:08:24 – Statistics on Marriage Counseling
00:10:09 – The Impact of Third Parties
00:12:30 – Therapy as Preventive Maintenance
00:15:19 – Choosing the Right Therapist
00:18:08 – The Role of Co-Parent Counselors
00:24:00 – Understanding Special Masters
00:30:31 – Feedback from Children Post-Divorce
00:38:55 – Strategic Compromise in Divorce
00:45:00 – Conclusion and Resources
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